It is with such pleasure that I introduce today’s sweet guest blog writer, Meghan. In her post, 3 Things Wives Want In The Bedroom, Meghan helps you husbands out by giving you some insight into what women really want in our marriage bed. Help me welcome her to Forever Beloved and leave her an encouraging comment below!
If you ask any man what they know about women, most will probably admit, that women can be a real mystery. Sometimes It’s hard to understand what makes us ladies tick.
In fact, it doesn’t matter if a man is a newlywed or has spent decades with his bride, he is most-likely still clueless about what actually pleases his wife. The return line at any department store after Christmas is proof of that!
Many men are just as lost when it comes to pleasing their wives in the bedroom, so to help you guys out, here are 3 things wives want in the bedroom.
We Want Acceptance
As women, we have a tremendous amount of pressure put on us to look a certain way or be a certain size.
The truth is, most of us don’t measure up in one way or another. This can leave even the most beautiful women feeling like a failure.
It’s really hard to be comfortable with our bodies when we are being compared to what we see on TV, in movies, and even on Instagram.
On top of that, many women are also moms, which means our bodies go through some really crazy changes when we are pregnant. Suddenly we have stretch marks, saggy skin, and cellulite that might not have been there on our wedding night.
We need to know that you still love us, and find us beautiful even when we don’t feel beautiful.
Having a husband who accepts our bodies as they are right now, and not how they used to look, or how we want them to be, is necessary to make us feel more confident in the bedroom.
We Want To Feel Cherished
Cherish by definition, means “to hold dear”, and sometimes we want just that…to be held, dearly!
Remind us of how much you care, by saying sweet things, and telling us exactly what you find attractive about us.
Show us that we are valued by doing romantic things for us. (A little back massage can go a long way!)
Let us know that what we have together is special and that you wouldn’t want to be with anyone else.
Do anything you can think of to show us that we are irreplaceable, loved, and treasured.
We Want Satisfaction
You may have heard the saying that marriage is all about “give and take.” One place it definitely applies is in the bedroom.
Any good woman wants to satisfy her husband, but a good husband should want to make his wife happy too.
Don’t just focus on yourself and your needs. Ask your wife what she wants from you, and how you can make her satisfied too.
Keeping each other pleased is a great way to grow closer and make your relationship stronger.
Every woman is different, but there are a few basic things that nearly all women want from their husbands. Among them are acceptance, being cherished, and feeling satisfied.
However, it never hurts to ask your wife what else she wants or needs. Communicate with her, and find out what specifically she might need from you to feel good about herself.
Wives what would you add to the list? Comment below and let us know!
I’m M. J. a Christian marriage blogger at RestoreAmor.com who is passionate about helping couples struggling in their marriages, and sharing what God has done to heal my own marriage. I love writing and it’s my desire that God would use my words to draw others to Him.
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